Friday 30 January 2009

Color is the place where our brain and the universe meet.
-Paul Klee

Colours play an indispensable role in determining man’s position in Universe. All living beings operate in a colourful framework, a framework diligently created by the supreme power. He created the sun, the moon, the earth, mountains, sky, letting each creation exhibits its unique colour. Among all his creations, the Almighty attributed mankind the central place.

He stroked the colour of compassion in Mother Teresa’s figure and guided the world to make use of kindness as a magical colour to paint a benevolent picture of humanity. Similarly, the divine power sprayed the canvass of life with different hues: Truth and Ahimsa; Patriotism and Sacrifice; Determination and Philanthropy in the figures of Gandhi, Nehru, and Bhagat Singh, to name a few. He then sprinkled shades of Love, Honesty, Respect, Gratitude, and Goodness to improve upon his created expressions.

To lend more colours to his marvelous design, he embellished Nature with myriad of colours. Almost every colour finds a beautiful expression in the face of Nature. VIBGYOR-a jewel in firmament- displays seven majestic colours: Violet, Indigo, Blue, Green, Yellow, Orange and Red.

He intended man to emulate his style and diligence while existing in the Universe.
Alas! Nature’s splendid canvas got brutally assaulted and spoiled by man’s Black deeds. Activities like deforestation, irregular plantations, soil erosion completely robbed Nature of its natural colours which once adorned Nature’s throne. Human being, the crown of all creation, got busy rupturing the established colourful framework, instead of adhering to God’s example.

The dreadful scenes of murder, rape, extortion, kidnapping, female trafficking, child abuse, dowry deaths etc. make shades of black and grey more prominent in man’s dismal portrait of his social surroundings. The political scene is no better. The shades of violence and communalism have replaced the shades of truth and secularism.

The portrait of mankind differs drastically from the one created by the God. It reflects not a myriad of colours but what it does reflect is a mirage.

Monday 5 January 2009

Recession’s invisible aspect

A slowed economy and on top of that the craving for money have stifled the social scene, besides endangering the growth of interpersonal relationships



"If a man does not make new acquaintances as he advances through life, he will soon find himself alone.
-- Samuel Johnson

A few incidents of late set me thinking for hours. Every time I spotted a familiar face amidst a sea of strangers, I invited a fierce cold response. I wondered over this bizarre tendency of people to overlook one’s presence, and then pretend to be engaged. An afterthought suggested that the trend of ignoring acquaintances hasn’t come out of a blue moon. It has been there just like the economic meltdown.

While recession received worldwide attention, the phenomenon’s social fallout didn’t get a worthy response. The same social ties which were once a source of comfort-during crisis- have lost all sense of community today. In the 21st century, aloofness and numbness is what characterizes social relationships.

A slowed economy and over that the craving for money have stifled the social scene, besides endangering the growth of interpersonal relationships. Under extra- financial pressure- due to jobs-cuts, home foreclosures or falling behind on bills- the pressures on families have reached the boiling point.

Such pressures have made financial stability almost a pre-condition to survive. Therefore, we are always busy innovating ways for generating revenues, hoping that the surplus money would help us fight better against the economic downturn. In this scenario, to ‘meet and socialise’ is at the bottom of our priority list. Few people might disagree with the argument of expecting friendly vibes from acquaintances while others won’t care. Still, it isn’t as much about sociolisation as it is about few ‘warm words’: spoken with earnestness and care by people who occupy considerable space in our lives. It’s about that lost opportunity of a slight acquaintance which could have grown into familiarity or perhaps terminated into a friendship.

Therefore, the present trend appears as a sad commentary on our growing materialistic aspirations. Our constant preoccupation with the thought of making more money hasn’t left any room for the development of social relationships. Even the developed ones are getting detached, let alone the formation of new ones. Monetary acquisitions- being the ultimate objective- are leaving behind a trail of broken and strained relationships

The age-old belief of man being a social animal stands subverted by our misplaced priorities. In a mad chase for materialistic objects, we are losing the essence of being the social creature. This complete loss of human touch and genuineness on the part of our generation comes to full circle when we encounter our loved ones; abruptly, on the busy streets.

Change- a play of time

Decades ago, if people happened to recognise a friend, they would hop and scream with extreme joy. Their heart would palpitate and a genuine expression of love would adorn their faces. That moment’s sensibility reverberated their hearts throughout the day. Like us, our ancestors also wanted to survive and make their both ends meet. However, they led a much successful and healthy social life. Unlike us, building relations was an integral part of their professional and personal discourse. Which is why, they genuinely enquired about each one’s well being, unlike artificial and forced pretensions of today.

Indeed, time has changed and so have people. Today we meet someone; the other person gets busy in devising ways to ignore our presence. Worse, the geography of our social relations rests firmly on financial stability than on social mobility. It pre-empts how good or bad, healthy or unhealthy our social life could be. For instance, a neighbour earning in six- figures will never escape the social protocols whereas a friend who helped during a crisis would surely does.

The trend’s sprawling tentacles must have touched everyone in different ways. And it seems the trend is here to stay until We- The People adopt a mature outlook to deal with the upsetting time. Fighting recession in isolation is certainly not a way out. Rather the battle can be won by the collective effort, by prioritising relationships over wealth. Leading a simple yet fulfilling life should be the mantra. Otherwise, in an attempt to dispel depression we may end up inviting more gloom.

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